Women's Negotiation of Cunnilingus in College Hookups and Relationships

@article{Backstrom2012WomensNO,
  title={Women's Negotiation of Cunnilingus in College Hookups and Relationships},
  author={Laura Backstrom and Elizabeth A. Armstrong and Jennifer Puentes},
  journal={The Journal of Sex Research},
  year={2012},
  volume={49},
  pages={1 - 12}
}
Using in-depth interviews with 43 college women who were, on average, 21 years old (SD = 0.79), the authors explored women's attitudes toward and experiences of cunnilingus. The authors found that cunnilingus posed interactional challenges for women, but that these varied by relationship context. Drawing on scripting theory, the authors argue that the sexual scripts available to contemporary American college students assume cunnilingus in relationships, but not in hookups, where the… 

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