When rejection stings: how self-esteem constrains relationship-enhancement processes.

@article{Murray2002WhenRS,
  title={When rejection stings: how self-esteem constrains relationship-enhancement processes.},
  author={Sandra L. Murray and Paul Rose and Gina M. Bellavia and John G. Holmes and Anna Garrett Kusche},
  journal={Journal of personality and social psychology},
  year={2002},
  volume={83 3},
  pages={
          556-73
        }
}
Three experiments examined how needs for acceptance might constrain low versus high self-esteem people's capacity to protect their relationships in the face of difficulties. The authors led participants to believe that their partner perceived a problem in their relationship. They then measured perceptions of the partner's acceptance, partner enhancement, and closeness. Low but not high self-esteem participants read too much into problems, seeing them as a sign that their partner's affections… 
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