The self-fulfilling nature of positive illusions in romantic relationships: love is not blind, but prescient.
@article{Murray1996TheSN, title={The self-fulfilling nature of positive illusions in romantic relationships: love is not blind, but prescient.}, author={Sandra L Murray and John G. Holmes and Dale W. Griffin}, journal={Journal of personality and social psychology}, year={1996}, volume={71 6}, pages={ 1155-80 } }
It is proposed that satisfying, stable relationships reflect intimates' ability to see imperfect partners in idealized ways. In this study of the long-term benefits (or possible costs) of positive illusions, both members of dating couples completed measures of idealization and well-being 3 times in a year. Path analyses revealed that idealization had a variety of self-fulfilling effects. Relationships were most likely to persist-even in the face of conflicts and doubts-when intimates idealized…
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