Sexual fantasies about one's partner versus someone else: Gender differences in incidence and frequency

  title={Sexual fantasies about one's partner versus someone else: Gender differences in incidence and frequency},
  author={Thomas V. Hicks and Harold Leitenberg},
  journal={The Journal of Sex Research},
  pages={43 - 50}
Gender differences in the proportion of sexual fantasies involving someone other than a current partner (extradyadic fantasies) were explored using an anonymous questionnaire administered to 349 university students and employees (ages 18 to 70) who reported that they were currently in heterosexual relationships. Eighty‐seven percent of the sample (98% of men and 80% of women) reported having extradyadic fantasies in the past 2 months. A hierarchical regression analysis revealed that, compared… 

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