Lesbian sexuality/female sexuality: Rethinking 'lesbian bed death'

  title={Lesbian sexuality/female sexuality: Rethinking 'lesbian bed death'},
  author={Margaret Nichols},
  journal={Sexual and Relationship Therapy},
  pages={363 - 371}
  • Margaret Nichols
  • Published 1 November 2004
  • Psychology
  • Sexual and Relationship Therapy
Beginning in the early 1980s, sex researchers and sex therapists became interested in studying same-sex sexuality and romantic relationships. In part, this grew out of efforts to address the special needs of lesbians and gay men in psychotherapy and sexual counselling. But in addition, some sexologists were motivated by the belief that comparing the behaviour of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, and heterosexuals could increase our understanding of the subtle interplay between sexuality and gender… 

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