Heterosexually Married Men Who Have Sex With Men: Marital Separation and Psychological Adjustment

  title={Heterosexually Married Men Who Have Sex With Men: Marital Separation and Psychological Adjustment},
  author={James Peller Malcolm},
  journal={The Journal of Sex Research},
  pages={350 - 357}
  • J. P. Malcolm
  • Published 20 October 2008
  • Psychology
  • The Journal of Sex Research
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