Emotional Attachments in Abusive Relationships: A Test of Traumatic Bonding Theory

  title={Emotional Attachments in Abusive Relationships: A Test of Traumatic Bonding Theory},
  author={Donald G. Dutton and Susan Lee Painter},
  journal={Violence and Victims},
  pages={105 - 120}
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