Discrepancies between Sexual Desire and Sexual Activity: Gender Differences and Associations with Relationship Satisfaction

@article{Santtila2008DiscrepanciesBS,
  title={Discrepancies between Sexual Desire and Sexual Activity: Gender Differences and Associations with Relationship Satisfaction},
  author={Pekka Santtila and Ingrid Wager and Katarina Witting and Nicole Harlaar and Patrick Jern and Ada Johansson and Markus Varjonen and N. Kenneth Sandnabba},
  journal={Journal of Sex \& Marital Therapy},
  year={2008},
  volume={34},
  pages={31 - 44}
}
The nature of sexual satisfaction and its relationship with relationship satisfaction was examined in a population-based Finnish sample of men and women between 33 and 43 years. Both men and women wished to experience kissing and petting, sexual fantasies, oral sex, and vaginal intercourse more often. Sexual satisfaction, defined as no discrepancy between desired frequency and actual frequency of sexual behaviors, was associated with relationship satisfaction. In both sexes, sexual satisfaction… Expand
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