Centered but not Caught in the Middle: Stepchildren's Perceptions of Dialectical Contradictions in the Communication of Co-Parents

@article{Braithwaite2008CenteredBN,
  title={Centered but not Caught in the Middle: Stepchildren's Perceptions of Dialectical Contradictions in the Communication of Co-Parents},
  author={Dawn O. Braithwaite and Paige W. Toller and Karen L. Daas and Wesley T. Durham and Adam C. Jones},
  journal={Journal of Applied Communication Research},
  year={2008},
  volume={36},
  pages={33 - 55}
}
The researchers adopted a dialectical perspective to study how stepchildren experience and communicatively manage the perception of feeling caught in the middle between their parents who are living in different households. The metaphor of being caught in the middle is powerful for stepchildren and this metaphor animated their discourse. A central contribution of the present study was to understand the alternative to being caught in the middle and what this alternative means to stepchildren… 
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